SELF-COMPASSION
We are not islands cut off from one another. We are relational creatures whose selfhood or identity is mediated through interaction with others and the world in which we all exist. The Self is not immediately explicit to itself as it needs others to mediate its self-awareness. We have all read, or at least heard, the lines from Meditation XVII by John Donne (1572–1631) which go: No man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as any manner of thy friends or of thine own were; any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind. And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee. I write this rather long introduction because of our shared humanity, and our individual identity, which ultimately depends on that shared humanity. Our identity evolves over tim...